SYLVIE'S LOVE: I Needed This.

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How pure, how lovely, how cool and satisfying this movie was to me, is difficult to describe, much like love itself. It is exactly my kind of romance. Romance as a genre is to me one of the hardest to pull off on screen, because it conjures our most insincere sensibilities. There is no one way to do it, but my favorite is when love is treated as if it is complicated enough without our methodical tinkering for the sake of drama. To use a wrestling analogy I love romance without heels to hate, and faces to love, without cheating as a plot device, or gender battles born out of Twitter discourse and entertainment, and in particular of a certain black filmmakers favorite - black women's trauma. Sylvie's Love satiated my appetite for this exact kind of romance.

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Sylvie (Tessa Thompson) is a young dreaming ambitious black woman who loves her father, listens to her mother and not only dreams, but follows through on a life where she is the captain of her destiny. So while living firmly within the codes, morals and conventions of her time, she still clearly sets herself as apart from it which is a wonderful argument against the idea that you cannot tell stories that take place in a certain time without planting the characters in all the worst and most reductive attitudes and rituals of that time. I digress, Sylvie meets a young similarly ambitious Robert (Nmandi Asumongha ) who spots her from outside the window with a help wanted sign, and instantly sees her. There is no meet-cute, no unnecessary or forced banter as we might see in something like the year's earlier black romantic offering “The Photograph”, just as organic a setting and a meeting of two people as a film can offer. Subsequently the first meeting in which they begin to fall for each other is created by a locked door. Which I love because don’t we all meet or have locked doors that can either trap us in our ways, or lead us to our love if opened? It’s also a better and more interesting stand in for the tired cliché of an elevator that gets stuck. This feels like something that could actually happen and not like another version of a plot device used to force two people who may not have their own volition allowed themselves to be in one room for this amount of time getting to know each other. This budding love of course is not without complications as no love story is, and we have been told earlier that Sylvie is actually engaged, but we're all pretty aware pretty soon that Sophie's real love is Robert. This engagement is not easily dismissed, not for Sylvie or the audience. It is a real complication with real consequences and real stakes, as it deals with a dilemma that’s real for many of us in this capitalist society, marry for love or for reality, balance, help, status. In this world neither is funny or easily dismissed. The film understands this pish and pull, and doesn’t pit these two against each other as much as show us the evolution of Sylvie’s decision. Sylvie’s “Love” takes its time both with Sylvie’s and Robert's relationship and with the eventual resolution of the agreed-upon marriage. The toughest part of this movie and what makes it so great for me, is that there is no real villain here. Husband Lacey is not the worst kind of man, but he is not the best either. He's not something out of a Tyler Perry movie, a villainous cheater, or an abuser, he's not sitting on his woman, he's just your average guy with probably the average moral standing of a man from his era. No, the True Villain if there is a villain or such a thing in this film, it is life, and just as life gets in the way in this film in the famous words of Dr. Ian Malcolm from Jurassic Park - life finds a way - to continually bring these two back into each other's arms.

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There is lots of beauty in Sylvies love, cinematographer Declan Quinn Paints and reinforces the mood with deep saturated blue hues and lots of browns and plenty of great lighting. Costume designer Phoenix Mellow dresses up the characters lots of streamlined simple but lush colors, and all of it feels like a true ode to the era rather than the commercialist idea that came from the era, and of course we have our two leads themselves Nnamdi Asomugha and Tessa Thompson are both incredibly gorgeous people, but the most beautiful portion of this film is its naturalistic, patient, touching portrait of the ups and the downs of being in love and it's ultimate sentiment which is: If you love something enough you have to be willing to let it go, and if it comes back to you.. well then you know the rest. Sylvia is the first one to make this choice and the basis of this decision is because she wants to see him flourish and she knows the kind of man that he is. Robert will make a similar sacrifice next and again the basis of it is that he wants to see Sylvie flourish, not because he is a low-down dog, or a coward. I know that there are all kinds of truths existing about men and the reality of the things that we do and the way that we have created the world in our horribly misshapen image of masculinity, but even still it's nice to see a movie that centers in it a decent, loving, caring black man whose flawed but none the less a good man. As it pertains to love its nice to see a refreshing portrayal of the many times timing and/or our own insecurities get in our way and also how our and in the movie their insecurities factor into the flaws of their decision-making. The beauty lies in the fact that through this conflict of self and time the ultimate driver of his/her decisions, and the choice is still love and that's sweet and that's flawed and that's love. Love is hard enough to portray on screen, black love is even more difficult to even get to the screen. In a year that's seen some touchstones for black filmmakers, and seen the rise of some very interesting filmmakers this was a nice cap off. To finish out this tumultuous year with a story this rich, this gorgeous, this sweet. To see a film that has at its center a portrait of black love with a two people falling for each other not by or through the sacrifices they ask of the other, but by the sacrifices they ask of themselves and come together through it all. Nothing this year that came out made me cry and smile ear to ear as much. In moments it was arduous, and it hurt, and it felt oh so good, and in the end I was all the much happier that I went on the journey and that too is love, and especially in 2020, I needed this .