The tensions between these distances are most certainly presented, or at least they are talked about or mentioned a lot. Between his work life and home life, his straight marriage to Felicia Montealegre, and his queer selfhood, between his authentic self and the performer. The latter is the aspect most presented within this movie. It's in his words to a reporter, his words to trusted friends, it's in his sometimes overhearing need to share, and his over bearing needs which can “swallow up” those around him as Felicia says in one climactic argument. He is in constant performance, whether in show, in love, or in conversation, and it is the friction between that performance and his actual self the movie tries to reckon with, but also seems afraid to come close to. The other aforementioned tensions are merely dressing to the dressing, and in concert with this very ostentatious cavalcade of technique and the artifice of craft and genius, it gives one the feeling that you visited a grand costume ball that had absolutely little to no meaning save to prove the ability of the person throwing it. For a movie about love, there is very little in it. There is loyalty, and lots of understanding, and respect, words thrown at you at 100 miles per hour, camera movements to astound you, close ups, and pulls, wide shots and all other manner of accoutrements that are meant to accentuate this supposed story of the tensions on creativity, brilliance, and selfhood, but not love. The problem is all of these apparatuses serve to distance you from the subject and the music rather than bring you closer into. Instead of hugging us, Maestro’s incessant plays for prestige shrug us off. One scene has Bernstein being sort of cautiously nudged by a man he has a deep respect for to hide his name, one feels like this may be an entry way to a story about the tension in the sometimes short, sometimes long distances between Bernstein's (and really any non-white protestant male) Jewish identity and his very American success, but before we can even acknowledge what we are watching, Mulligan's Felicia is whispering into his ear to be his authentic self and whisking him off into their love story presented with an over head bird-eye shot that whips us into an entirely different space both physically and mentally. It's not a bad choice, falling in love can feel alot like this, but love isolated in a vacuum is not a story, the story is in its relation to subjects, it's distance from them -to them, so we still need to see how it is found between these two subjects, but before we can appreciate their love story we are treated to a flamboyantly shot dance scene with no actual flamboyance most especially when Cooper enters the scene ( a dancer he is not). The point here being tensions are presented in the same way a child may reply “present” during roll call, but they are not reckoned with, consolidated, or interstitched in any meaningful way. This all happens as Bernstein's queer life is as quietly placed into storage in the movie as it is depicted it was in his life.